The global obsession with chastity seems driven not only by evolutionary biology of genital infections and paternal uncertainty, but by the patriarchal structures that sought to ensure male domination over female bodies. I share my experience not to challenge the authenticity of rape traumas or condone the atrocity of perpetrators. Bangkoks gay nightlife is touted as a hub in Southeast Asia for good reason. I would like to merely question the perceptions of penetration upon male and female bodies, and also upon white and colored bodies. The city has some of the best be it bars, clubs, saunas, or inventive go-go boy shows when it comes to catering to the LGBT crowd. If perceptions diverge, then these distinctions should be acknowledged in educating young males about their gender privilege.
